He's Too Busy - What That Means And What He's Really Trying To Tell You

by Derek Blandford^(1,535) Bronze Star

http://makehimloveme.org

What is a guy really saying when he says he's too busy for a relationship? You may be crushing on a guy. You may even be going on a few dates with him, but you're not yet "official". But when you approach him about committing to a relationship, he tells you he's too busy. What is he really trying to say?

Being too busy usually isn't a good sign, so let's look at 3 possible reasons you might be getting the run around.

1.) Truth Be Told He's Just Not Digging You

A man may say he's too busy for a relationship because he's just not that into you. He may have been attracted to you at first, but after a couple dates he may not be feeling it.

He might have his eye set on someone else or he may have realized after getting to know you better that the two of you aren't really compatible. He may love spending time with you, but he may not have a physical, sexual, or romantic attraction for you.

When he finds himself already waist deep in spending time with you, it's easier to say, "I'm too busy for a relationship" than to say, "Ya know, I'm just not attracted to you that much."

2.) What He Says Is What He Means

On rare occasions being too busy may actually mean he really is too busy. Men are success driven, and he may have goals and dreams he's working toward. A relationship may not be his top priority right now.

If you know he's an extremely busy person with a lot going on, then he may feel like a relationship would be too much to handle right now. It wouldn't be fair to him and it wouldn't be fair to you if you couldn't make time for each other.

If you think this is the case, then just be patient and don't try to pressure him into anything. Be supportive, and he'll love you for it.

3.) He Loves Being A Bachelor

For a lot of men in their teens and twenties, a relationship symbolizes a lot of unnecessary hassle. Their mindset can be characterized by phrases like:

1.) "Why date one woman when you can date them all?"

2.) "Marriage isn't even in my vocabulary yet, so why should I tie myself down to someone?"

3.) "I love being single and living the bachelor lifestyle. It's total freedom!"

In most cases, when a man says he's too busy, it means he's not all that interested in you. When a man is truly attracted to and in love with a woman he'll do just about anything to spend time with her, especially early on in the relationship during the "honeymoon phase".

Don't waste precious time waiting for a man who won't make time for you. Make him addicted to you by being an independent woman who understands she wants a man in her life, but doesn't NEED a man in her life.

Next, here are some awesome text message techniques you can use to text the romance back and spark interest and desire in your man.

If you really want to create a deep desire in your man that will make you utterly irresistible to him so you can become the sole focus of his affection and make him fall in love with you, visit: How To Make A Guy Like You

Article submitted Thursday, February 02, 2012 & read 34 times.

Derek Blandford is an accomplished online author and a sought after authority in the fields of dating and relationships.

He enjoys helping others and is passionate about using the internet to get his tips, research, and advice in front of the people who desperately need it.

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