What Do Girls Really Want From Their Men?

by Ross Logan⁽¹⁾
http://www.attractthehottestgirls.com

A good friend of ours, we'll call him Vince for confidentially reasons, once went up to someone in a bar and asked her "do you want to sleep with me. Are you as shocked as us? Perhaps you are, perhaps not. He actually believed this was hilarious and would be an excellent conversation starter. He was convinced he could pull a lot of hotties with this opening line.

Even more remarkable, Vince is an Adonis, a very smart, cool, successful guy. However he was a poor performer when it came to pulling the opposite sex. His repertoire was simply awful and he wondered why he couldn't get the girls! When we confronted him on why he came up with these disgraceful one liners, he had convinced himself of a theory that girls must be tired of the standard lines many men come up with. For example "Would you like a coffee sometime this week". So he had brainwashed himself into thinking that he needed to be creative or wacky in order to stand out from all those other less imaginative guys with the same old opening lines.

The problem being, Vince thought using vulgarities was creative! Let us emphasis the point home gentleman. Trying to be creative, eccentric, unpredictable or whatever else you label in your opening line will lead to disappointment.

To be fair to Vince, we can understand his frustration. There are so many mixed messages out there. Girls are often proclaiming how they want men to be original, spontaneous, funny and different. When Vince gave that a go he just faced a barrage of rejection. So let's make it a little clearer for you.

Your spontaneity, humour and creativeness is of course valued. Just not right now. You have just met this girl in a bar, a coffee shop, a library or whatever. You don't know her. You fancy her and you want to take her out. Blurting out something crazy and she'll think you're a prized idiot.

Our girlfriends all agree. Men should employ the same tried and tested tactics that have a history of working time and time again. With a little charm, a smile, ask her out for a drink. And that's it. The Holy Grail.

When girls talk of originality they mean....

We have asked lots of my girlfriends what they mean by wanting original guys and this is our deduction.

a)The guy is the "unique" man ideally suited for her. They are in sync with each other. On a similar wavelength.

b)There is a mutual sexual attraction between them.

c)The conversation flows and you both have interesting experiences to share. There is a spirit between you both and boredom wont set in

d)You inspire each other and drive each other forward

e)He has his own intimate sayings and personal mannerisms that remind me of him.

Perhaps a little girly but now you know. Being creative or original is clearly an ideal geared towards relationships so let's leave that for when you meet the one.

Ross Logan, Mia Tang and Grace Underwood are authors of How to pick up women: The definitive guide to dating beautiful girls. http://www.attractthehottestgirls.com

Article submitted Wednesday, November 30, 2011 & read 4 times.

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