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5 Warning Signs Your Wife Is Cheating
by Kelly Schow(24)
If you suspect that your wife might be cheating on you there are several things you can look for to try and establish a pattern of deceit. Not everyone exhibits every change when they are being unfaithful, but you need to be aware of what to look for if you want to save your relationship. Look for the following 5 changes in your wife when trying to determine if something else is going on.
- Change of Routine
- Change in Intimacy
- Change in Appearance
- Change in Internet Usage
- Change in Mood
Change in Routine
If you suspect that your wife is having an affair, look to see if there are any subtle changes in their daily routine. Make a mental note if they are buying you more gifts and acting differently without a reason. This could be a subconscious response to the guilt they feel for cheating on you.
Change in Intimacy
Has there been a dramatic change in intimacy in your relationship? Has the frequency gone down? Look for changes in sexual patterns and requests. If they are looking for you to try something new or odd this could be because they’re acting this out with someone else too.
Change in Apparel
Has your wife started to do her own laundry or dry cleaning? This might be an attempt to hid evidence such as cologne smells and other things. Furthermore, do you also find that she is trying to look good all the time? Is she now fussing over her hair and her clothes when she hadn’t before? This could be an attempt by her to try and impress someone new.
Change in Internet Usage
Watch your wife’s computer history. Are they frequently on Facebook? Does she have a large number of friends that are the opposite sex? Is there someone that she is conversing with regularly? This could be a sign of an emotional connection with someone else instead of you. Look to see if she is regularly deleting their internet history to cover her tracks.
Change in Mood
Has your wife become more distant? Do you find that she’s stopped conversing with you on a regular basis? In a lot of cases a cheater will start to emotionally distance themselves from you and will become defensive when pressed about the issue.
Another point to note here with change in mood is that some wives might react differently and become overly affectionate with you. This is a subconscious reaction to cheating where they try to justify it by over compensating their physical love and affection to you. Make a mental note of either of these two emotional changes in your relationship.
If you’ve noticed any of these 5 signs in your relationship with your wife it could be a sign that something else is going on. Look to see if any of these patterns lasts for longer than 30 days and don’t be afraid to trust your instinct.
If you’ve noticed any of these 5 signs in your relationship it could be a sign that your wife is cheatingon you.
Look to see if any of these patterns lasts for longer than 30 days and don’t be afraid to trust your instinct.
I Know
That you can rebuild the love and trust that your wife and you once had? Most couples have all the tools but they don’t know how to use them.
In fact over 50% of people who have been cheated on and 65% of cheaters want to try and restore their relationship back to the way it was before the affair.
I will show you how to agree on new boundaries that will help you both feel safe and secure without feeling trapped, imprisoned or micromanaged.
These methods are easy to understand but they will take a little practice and patience, you can read how to do it in my free report here: How to Survive an Affair.
Article submitted Tuesday, May 10, 2011 & read 175 times.
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