A Romance Recipe for Men

by Dr. Love
Syncrohearts Relationship Game

If you are a man and you are reading this article, you deserve to be congratulated, because you are expressing your desire to improve your "cooking" skills. If you are a woman reading this article, you might want to cut it out and post it on the fridge. This new recipe could literally heat things up in every room of your house. It has been handed down from generation to generation and it has evolved. It has got hotter over the years, because women have encouraged men, to add their own romantic ingredients. It is good for you and it will improve your health, it will enhance your relationship and it will help strengthen your family and community. If this sounds too good to be true, then it is time to get cooking. Guys there is no need to worry, you don't have to be a master chef to follow this romantic recipe. It has three simple steps and you will get rave reviews just for trying.

The first step is to don your romantic image. This part of the recipe is good for you personally. It is hard to be sexy, if you do not feel sexy. A romantic guy needs to be a healthy guy. If you look straight down at your feet and you can't count your toes, then you have some work to do. Have fun with this step because improving your health will result in benefits in all areas of your life. Take pride in your appearance with good hygiene and flattering clothes. Your friends will be envious when the waitress pays more attention to you. More importantly, your spouse will be proud of her sexy looking man. Regardless of how long you have been together, pretend that you are trying to attract her for the first time. This will help boost your confidence and self esteem. Romance starts with self-love, but not that kind of self-love. You deserve to treat your body, mind and soul with fun exercise, good nutrition and adequate rest. If you adhere to this romantic recipe, your training will probably include some sensual "sexorcise" too.

Step two involves learning about romance. New Lexicon Webster's Dictionary defines romance as "a medieval literary form, initially old French or Provengal, dealing with deeds of chivalry or with historical or mythological events seen in the perspective of a medieval court". This definition suggests that romance is rooted in a man's "good behaviour". However, even bad boys get rewarded with sex, so this definition misses an important connection between romance and sex. It is not about the quantity, it is about the quality of sex. Relationships are not sporting events and there is no need to keep score. Both partners win when romance is celebrated with loving intentions rather than selfish expectations. Your romance education will flourish when you ask your partner what is important to them. You might be surprised at how the little things can add more spice to the relationship. Fortunately, men are waking up to the benefits of being more of an equal partner in the relationship, by cooking dinners more often, cleaning the house (without being asked) and doing unexpected chores and favours.

Step three is the time to get cooking. Your personal training and education on romance has prepared you for getting busy in the kitchen. This is the most exciting part of the recipe because romance takes practice and practice makes perfect. Hold on boys, you need to send loving thoughts before you start stirring. It is important to respect and honour your spouse with caring thoughts and words of love, appreciation and gratitude. The temperature will start to rise when you shower her with compliments. If something else starts to rise in your kitchen, try to keep your focus on improving your communication or think of wading waist deep in cold water. Easy big fellow, patience is essential for enhancing romantic feelings. This is not a fast food recipe. Slow cooking will help you and your partner savor the aromas and tastes of romance. You can wet your appetites with gentle touch, warm hugs and light kisses because now you are cooking together. You have discovered the secret ingredient. Love inspires true romance which leads to a more intimate and exciting sex life. Now that you are both satisfied, it is time to cool down and clean up the kitchen.

Dr. Bobby Love is the inventor of the Syncrohearts Relationship Game

"The Game You Love to Play and Play to Love"

Author of the forthcoming book A Wonderful Man "A tribute to our fathers, a message of hope to our sons"

1-604-855-LOVE (5683)

bobby@syncrohearts.com

www.syncrohearts.com

Article submitted Tuesday, November 16, 2010 & read 173 times.

Dr. Love is learning about love and relationships through his experiences in life. He was inspired to create the Syncrohearts Relationship Game to help save his own marriage and now his “love game" is enhancing relationships around the world. During the development of Syncrohearts, a life changing transformation took place for the former forestry guy. His heart opened, his feelings started to flow, his intuition sharpened, his communication improved and he was awarded with the honorary title of Dr Love.

He is an international speaker and author on the topic of love and relationships. He and his wife have a teenage son and they live near Vancouver, British Columbia. His “love mission" supports a very worthwhile charity, the Zajac Ranch for kids with special needs.

Dr. Bobby Love

Inventor of the Syncrohearts Relationship Game

www.syncrohearts.com

"The Game You Love to Play and Play to Love"

1-604-855-LOVE

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» left by Jennifer Stewart (1 year 181 days ago.)

This is a novel approach to the art of - uh, cooking! But you're absolutely right in everything you say :)
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