Relationship Problems – What Men Want

by Kelly Bowman⁽²⁾

Women never stop searching for the secrets to what men want, and yet, strangely enough there are no secrets. To men its painfully obvious – they need to be admired

and appreciated.

Men express that, most relationship problems start when a relationship makes them feel inadequate.

Mens feelings are fragile. While rarely will a man concede to it, a man thrives on appreciation. What men want is to be honored for their achievements, not condemned. A man needs to believe that he is loved. He needs reassurance that he

is protecting his family and fulfilling his woman.

While a man might not express it, what a man really wants is a woman who understands his needs.

What else do men want from a woman?

What men want is a woman who is established in her own life, a woman who has her individual interests and her own identity. What men do not want is a woman who overly dependent or who obtains her identity entirely through him.

Men respond favorably to a woman who is emotionally dependable. Simply put, she takes responsibility for her own conduct, and in so doing she displays maturity, accountability, and sensitivity to her man.

Men honor a woman who encourages open and truthful communication. Honest communication is perhaps the single most essential deterrent to relationship problems and relationship breakup. A woman who listens to her man, and who respects his position, is a woman who will be abundantly rewarded with love and fidelity.

Men appreciate a woman who gives him space. Typically men seek to solve issues by moving to that separate space. Women need to accept these cues, accepting that when a man seeks space, it is not always for negative reasons. In fact, the problems might be entirely unrelated to her. By allowing him the space he needs, she is sharing with her man that she accepts his privacy, and that she will support him when he

needs her.

Ultimately, what men want is devotion and commitment. A woman who places her relationship first, who is committed to make the relationship thrive– particularly in tough times – is a woman who will enjoy her mans undying love.

Relationship problems, even relationship breakup, are resolved with commitment.

What men want in return for that commitment is truthful and open communication where each of the partners can speak without fear of reprisal.

In a healthy relationship, a man appreciates that love flourishes where there is accountability and emotional maturity. This means allowing the power of forgiveness to overshadow the destruction of resentment.

A loyal man thrives on appreciation and admiration from a woman who adores him and he returns those feelings.

No, there is nothing secretive about what a man wants. In fact, isn't what he wants precisely the same as what a woman wants?

Article submitted Tuesday, October 05, 2010 & read 156 times.

Having faced and survived hardships and adversities of her own, Kelly Bowman has since devoted years of her life to learning how best to help others with similar challenges. From a relationship breakup to emotional pain, cast aside the emotions that defeat. Join Kelly on a journey of strength away from relationship breakup and loneliness to acceptance and companionship.

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» left by Ifeanyi Anyanwu (1 year 208 days ago.)

you sure know what men do want.touching writing here,please write more
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