The Best Position for Making Love by Mark Parsec

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		Home > Categories > Personal » Love & Romance > The Best Position for Making Love The Best Position for Making Love by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ Blogz Not long ago, I was at my favorite hair salon awaiting my turn to get a much-needed haircut. So, while I waited, I leafed through some magazines to pass away the time and catch up on what was new. Not surprisingly, most of the magazines that I looked at were women’s magazines. However, what was a surprise to me, were all the articles about how to make love with such titles as: -Ten Tips To Turn Your Man On -Nine Naughty No No’s That You Need in Bed -Seven Secrets to Super Sex -Five Ways to Drive Him Wild… You get the idea. Well out of curiosity, more than anything else, I did a little research online and discovered that there is a WHOLE LOT of talking going on about how to make love. It seems there has been a resurgence of interest in the Kama Sutra and Tantric love making, not to mention all of the health fitness gurus that are promoting finer sex through physical fitness that even contortionists are blushing at. In any event, after some scholarly studies, and a lifetime of personal experience, I determined that I was in possession of some rather valuable information about lovemaking. Subsequently, I decided to publish this article about The Best Position for Making Love. Some of the most exciting things about this position is that it is conducive to both genders regardless of age or physical limitations and has the potential to enhance love making to the degree that once a couple have tried it they will soon decide that it is indeed the preferred and only position they will want for making love. So, if you are one of the many people that are looking to have a satisfying and mutually rewarding love life, get out your notebook, Post-It-Note, Ipad, or whatever your favorite recording device is, because you will not want to forget this… The Top… Number One… Best Position for Making Love is to be in the position of marriage. Say What? That’s right… marriage! Now, before you get all sick on me, I want to remind you that this article is about making love, I didn’t say sex. So, get your head out of the sheets and listen to what I have to say, because… well, you’ve already read this far AND because knowing how to make love will enhance your sex life. It’s kind of like a benefit that comes with marriage. There are a number of reasons why being in the position of marriage is the Best position for making love. In a committed monogamous relationship, you have a sense of safety and security that you will never find in a one-night stand. And… for you guys that are reading, this feeling of safety and security goes a long way in providing your woman not only with a deeper amount of respect for you… but a greater sense of satisfaction with love making and sex. Now, there is another reason why the position of marriage is the best position for making love. God blesses it! That’s right! In Proverbs 18:22 the Bible tells us, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.” Now, I don’t know about you, but I kind of like the idea of the LORD showing favor upon me and the woman I love. This “favor” means that God will show approval, which means he will lend his support and aid. In other words… God will bless the man who finds a wife. Notice, the Bible didn’t say, “He who finds a good “sex partner” or “’She’ who finds a wife.” The Bible is referring to the blessed union between a husband and a wife. It is a position they find in God’s eyes. They receive His favor, approval and blessings. So… what do marriage and our position with God have to do with making love? Well, in Ephesians 5:25 the Bible instructs the man saying, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;” Now, I could be wrong, but this is describing the ultimate type of love. It is the type of love where somebody is willing to die for you. And… that is exactly what Jesus Christ did. He died for the “church” the believers, his “Bride” those that would follow him, those that loved him. This does not just refer to a man who is willing to push his wife out of the way of a speeding vehicle in the street at the cost of his own life. Although, this is one aspect of “ultimate” love. However, it also means being able to die daily for the other person. In other words, determining that your reason for relationship is to bless the one whom God has given you even if it means putting your own interests second to theirs. I sure hope you’re listening guys… because this is what making love is truly all about. It is about living to be a blessing to the one you are with rather than expecting them to be a blessing to you. And when a man can learn how to assume this position in a relationship with the wife that God has given him then he will have found the Best Position for Making Love. Why? Because there are few women who will not appreciate this self-sacrificial love to the point where they will find it a pleasure to submit themselves to their husbands. Ephesians 5:22 further tells us, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” How do you submit to the Lord? Out of love and admiration. And why do we love and admire the Lord? Because He first loved us and was willing to lay down his life for us. When a husband is willing to lay down his life daily for the wife that he loves, seldom will she refuse him. Sounds like a pretty good position to be in with a woman if you ask me! Article submitted Thursday, February 18, 2010 & read 298 times. Leave Your Comments: » left by Zeph Agayo (203 days 4 hours ago.) Good day Mr. Parsec! My curiousity was really roused when I read in my inbox that you wrote an article about best position in making love. I must say that I'm impressed after reading your article. I laughed when you suddenly made a twist. Hats off to you and may you find favor in the Lord. I guess you already did. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Zeph, Good to hear from you. I am glad that you enjoyed the article. Thank you for your wonderful comments. God bless you always, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Hilda Cang (203 days 3 hours ago.) Hi Mark, Making love is different from Sex. You are so insightful. This is a wonderful article of this time/age. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Hilda, You are so right... there is a HUGE difference between the two. I appreciate your comments. Hope all is well with you. God bless you, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Marijo Phelps (202 days 20 hours ago.) Mark this is a great article for TODAY. Appreciate the humor and the Biblical insights. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Marijo, It is so good to hear from you. You have been on my mind a lot lately. I hope everything is going well with you and yours. Thank you for your comments. I'm glad you enjoyed the article. Blessings to you in Christ, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Anonymous (202 days 20 hours ago.) Amen,Amen, Amen!!! If only others would understand the commitment is what makes it so magical! Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Anonymous, Thank you, thank you, thank you! God bless you, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Anonymous (202 days 19 hours ago.) Women want 'committment'; men want ' involvement'; the difference between them is just like bacon and eggs; the chicken was 'involved'; the pig was ' committed!" Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (201 days 16 hours ago.) It's a good thing that bacon and eggs go together so well! Respond to this comment » left by Fran Larson⁽³⁴⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Amen!!! If only others would understand that the commitment is what makes love-making so magical! Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Fran, Looks to me like you are the Anonymous person above. LOL Thank you for your comments and God bless you my friend. Mark Respond to this comment » left by Michelle Mackin⁽⁵²⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Honey, AMEN! I am blessed to have you as my husband. Thank you for all that you do. I love you, Michelle Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Michelle! You are the love of my life and my gift from God. I am blessed to have you. Thank you for reading my article and for your comments. I never knew how to love until God put you into my life. Love you always, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Tim Bennett (202 days 20 hours ago.) This is a very well written and interesting insight to this subject and a pleasure to read. Very impressive. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 15 hours ago.) Hi Tim, Thank you for taking the time to read and comment on this article. I am glad that you enjoyed it. God bless you and yours, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Carol Allen Anfinsen⁽¹²⁾ (202 days 19 hours ago.) Wow! With a title like that who could resist reading. Beautiful description of "agape" love and the satisfaction that comes with commitment. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 15 hours ago.) Hi Carol, Thank you for your comments and your observations about agape love. Remind you to send you a memo about the title in case I forget. God bless you my friend, Mark Respond to this comment » left by Anonymous (202 days 19 hours ago.) The average husband who slaves to serve his wife has long endured prolonged begging as foreplay. To hear you say; "When a husband is willing to lay down his life daily for the wife that he loves, seldom will she refuse him.", I wonder how just many husbands you've met and talked to! Marrying a woman for a life of lovemaking is like buying a jumbo jet just for a life of getting the peanuts; there's MUCH easier ways to get peanuts,if that's what you really want...... Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (202 days 16 hours ago.) Hello Anonymous, Well, to answer your concerns, I have counseled with numerous men and women, husbands and wives through the years. Sadly, there are some who have endured the situation of obtaining "peanuts" for "jumbo jets". Unfortunately, these are individuals who are exceptions to the rule. But, as I said in my article, "seldom" not "never". But, the point being that the peanuts of sex are not the greatest of payoffs. If the husband approaches the situation with his wife thinking that his efforts should place his wife in a position that she "owes" him the peanuts, then the man has entirely missed the point of being self-sacrificing. It is the art of being able to love without expecting recriprication that produces the grandest results. Thank you for your comments. Mark Parsec Respond to this comment » left by Linda DeWitt (202 days 12 hours ago.) Good insightful article Mark. Loved the title. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (201 days 16 hours ago.) Hi Linda, Thank you for reading and commenting on this article. I'm glad that you liked the title. It was quite effective in drawing readers in. God bless you! Mark Respond to this comment » left by John Wilder from Indiana (197 days 16 hours ago.) Hey Mark Great piece. With all of the misandry in our society, there are a lot of women who have no problem forcing their husbands to do without sex. I deal with it in my practice all of the time. The Bible commands us not to be a stumbling block to each other. There is no bigger stumbling block than a wife routinely denying her husband sex. Studies indicate that 60% of the married women out there have their husbands on a starvation diet of sex once a week or less. And that includes Chiristian women who should know better. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (197 days 7 hours ago.) Hi John, I know it can be frustrating for us men. But... we need to love them more and more, even when they can't "perform". Thanks for your comments my friend. God bless you, Mark Respond to this comment » left by carolfernandez from uk (183 days 20 hours ago.) How often does God state we need to do it? Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (183 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Carol, How often does God state we need to do it? If you are referring to showing love, we should show love always. Making love physically is just one component of that. Mark Respond to this comment » left by carolfernandez from uk (183 days 21 hours ago.) Twin flame. Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (183 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Carol, Not sure what you mean by that comment, so please enlighten me. Mark Respond to this comment » left by marcia balthazar (38 days 11 hours ago.) Great article! Respond to this comment » left by Mark Parsec⁽³⁵⁰⁾ (36 days 20 hours ago.) Hi Marcia, I'm glad you enjoyed the article. God bless you! Mark Respond to this comment 48-0-0-0-50-ADWR
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