The Disposable Guy - will it ever be more than just friends?

by stuart cooke

Looking back on my previous relationships has led me to conclude that I am a disposable guy. No really I am. Consider this.

People... mainly women select me, use me for whatever means they have and then dispose of me, whether divorce , dumping me, breaking off contact or just relegating me to the level of just Friends, which we all know is just a form of recycling for a disposable guy.

When I was 8 I lost my Mum, then 2 weeks later my father ( loosest possible terms ) decided that he had no furhter reason to keep in touch with me and told me that he could no longer see me, and he didnt. That was 26 years ago.........Disposed of.

When I was 15 I told my best friend that I was in love with her, we dated for exactly 16 hours , then she broke it off telling me that she didn't want to ruin the friendship ... recycled !

I got married ... 8 years later my ex decided that so guy she met on the Internet and had not even met would be a better partner than me .... disposed of.

Various women since have met me, dated me and disposed of me. The latest has told me that she cannot do anything other than friends just now ...... recycled

Do you see a trend ?

Article submitted Saturday, August 29, 2009 & read 77 times.

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» left by LeahG Artist (2 years 249 days ago.)

Hi SC

I understand that losing your parents must have been a dreadful trauma and perhaps some counselling might be an option to help you come to terms with it? It's never too late. Perhaps that early loss left you feeling like no one loved you and perhaps you stopped loving yourself. You need to find that self love once more and then maybe the trend will change and you can be happy.

Best of luck

Leah
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