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If you think its just feminine element that helps you gel well with your partner-THINK AGAIN
A Guy feels good with a female, but he feels more comfortable with another guy. No...don't take it otherwise, it's just a general calculation that I have made from my past experience.So,the thing comes to my mind is 'Can we precipitate out behaviour which make a man feel comfortable with the company of other man and manage to inject those traits to a man-woman chemistry?'. Yes, if you are thinking of a longterm relationship than perhaps you'll have to just give up the idea of looking flamboyant all the time for your soulmate and should show a natural specimen of yours.
Again, this isn't all. Feminine elements in females not just woo a male but also causes replusion at times. So, it could be possible that a guy who is too sugarcoated with you can talk spite about you; if you were too good to him then why is this happening? Well I think after the initial rosy days, both man and woman wants more understanding and a friendly relationship. So if you want to workout on your part than I feel its always appreciated to be little tomboyish.This will increase your acceptability level and will help you to some extent in understanding the opposite gender. Also, will help you to prune down the distance between you and your man by bringing more familiarity and a buddy buddy relationship. For instance,if you dont like to watch sports and your spouse is crazy about baseball, than there is no harm in start taking interest. After all every passion has a start point. Or else if you seriously can't make yourself watch it than, at least don't snatch the remote control,rather get some popcorns if you can.
One thing we should avoid unless its really required is use of mediator. Speak 1 to 1, this will bring transparency and will whip out hesitation if its there.
Nobody wants to live life on somebody elses conditions, but its not about following somebodies command instead here you are putting some efforts for something which means a lot to you.
Article submitted Friday, May 22, 2009 & read 110 times.
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